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    Try to£¨13£©¡¡ ¡¡ selfconfident £¨×ÔÐÅ£© even if you don't feel that way when you£¨14£©¡¡ ¡¡a room full of strangers£¬such as a new classroom£¬walk tall and straight£¬look directly£¨15£©¡¡ ¡¡  other people and smile£®

    If you see someone£¬you'd like to£¨16£©¡¡ ¡¡£¬say something£®Don't wait for £¨17£©¡¡ ¡¡ person to start a conversation £¨Ì¸»°£©£®

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