People

APNIC, Hangzhou

(1) A better way to deal with relationships is to focus on study while in college and leave romance until after graduation. Dating surely will take a lot of time and energy which should be devoted to our subjects for us students. I don’t think guys who spend time and energy in love while in university can graduate with good grades.

Guangdong netizen

 

(2)All of us want love and a dream career. Can we get both? We certainly hope so, but reality is tough and competition is becoming fiercer. After all, we have to earn our bread first. We need to choose, and many of us wou ld choose a career ove r love. Nothing is wrong with that.

Netizen from the US

(3)I am facing the same situation with my boyfriend. I immigrated to New York with my family, but he still works in China. I believe our relationship will never change, even though we are apart. As the saying goes: follow your heart.

Beijing netizen

 

(4)This is a decision many campus lovers have to make. Just remember:everyone has the right to pursue what he or she wants. Just let it be! Student couples should be more forgiving of each other. Let your lovers achieve their goals and live their own life as long as they are happy. Maybe this is true love

SunShiling, from Shanghai Normal University

 

 

(5)I enjoy chatting with my QQ and Renren.com friends so much that I often spend hours in front of the computer without noticing the time pass. I also love chatting with my good friends in real life. Honestly, I prefer the latter. To talk with a real person makes you laugh on occasion, and that’s a real treat. The humorous tones of your words make your listeners laugh, and their facial expressions tell you that they sincerely appreciate your viewpoint. Cyber pals characters and emoticons (ÓÉ×Ö·û×é³ÉµÄͼÊÍ) can never offer you this kind of satisfaction. When I read a line in the dialogue box, I wonder if it’s my cyber pal’s real thoughts, but face-to-face get-togethers set me at ease.